Liminal Times

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Liminal is a word for the in-between. It describes states, times, spaces, etc., that exist at a point of change—a metaphorical threshold. . . . something that is barely perceptible or barely capable of eliciting a response.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/word-of-the-day/liminal-2024-09-15

These days between Christmas and New Year’s Day are liminal. Quiet, with few demands made. When an email is sent or a phone call is made, there is little expectation of a reply until after January 1. Practically no one schedules appointments or events unless they have previously confirmed that the other party will be around and available. We exist in a state of near-invisibility, anticipating a muted response to any inquiry, as if everyone is half-asleep.

Adding to this illusion today is the grayness, the wetness, the fog hovering near the ground that just yesterday was covered in snow and is now a soggy brown with hints of dead grass. A book I read as a child included a line that has remained with me: “New England, as usual, has gone white for the winter, and it will be many weeks before we see the earth again.”[1] Sadly, New England—at least, southern New England—no longer goes white for the winter. Our so-called winters are now little more than strings of rainy gray days, occasionally punctuated by squalls that leave heavy, wet snow/slush combinations to be scraped away before they turn into puddles topped with papery layers of ice like an inferior crème brûlée.

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The Season of Crazy-Busyness

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Personally, I blame the school year.

Like so many, I grew up with the school-year routine: after a summer of fun and relaxation, work begins in the fall, continues through the winter (albeit with a couple of breaks), and wraps up in late spring. Even though we non-educators don’t actually get the summer off (other than an isolated vacation day, or maybe a cherished week or two if we’re very lucky), there’s still the sense that life slows down in the summer, only to ramp up in late August in anticipation of a return to the over-full schedule of classes, sports, rehearsals, homework, commitments, subscription series—not to mention resumption of all the tasks and deadlines that we pushed to the side while our colleagues and clients were away and we basked in the peace of their absence.

Hence, the Season of Crazy-Busyness.

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Before the Storm: A Few Thoughts

My backyard

Here in the northeastern U.S., we’re preparing for Winter Storm Bobby.

(I should point out that it’s hard to take a storm seriously that sounds as if it’s named for a little boy or, for those of us who recall the 1970s, a teen heartthrob.)

Forecasters tend to get excited about such dramatic weather events. I imagine it has something to do with how seldom they occur. Also, if they fail to hype the event enough and it turns out to be a big deal, the same people who complain about they overhype every snowflake will shriek and moan about how somebody should have told them this was going to be a big deal.

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The Luxury of Spontaneity

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Photo credit: Chris Galbraith on Unsplash

Once upon a time, I awoke on a Wednesday morning in August. The sun was bright and summer-hot. My workload was summer-light. I called my friend, K, who was also a freelancer, and said, “Let’s go to the beach!”

“When?” she asked reasonably.

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The Best-Laid Plans

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The best-laid plans of women, writers, and lawyers often go awry.

~ Robert Burns

Okay, that’s not exactly what he said, but you get the idea.

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